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   by Beverly Fergusson, LPGA
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Teaching women golfers: A bit like herding cats

Monday February 26, 2007 | 05:20:38 229 words, 3854 views
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“Women don’t know what they don’t know …. they have to be led ….. but leading women is like herding cats!” (A quote from myself).

Think about it. Once you herd cats, you think they are all with you …. then …. they all scatter all over the place and you have to herd them again. I’m a woman, and I know.

Here’s why women have to be “herded” in golf instruction. I have taught many women and I have taught just as many men. Women take lessons very well and they generally will practice what they learned in a lesson, but then, they start listening to every amateur golfer who feels the need to help them - from the old guy down at the end of the range who sees a “damsel in distress,” to the husband who continually says “keep your head down” so much that now she can’t even move …. to the women’s club member who says, “oh, it will be alright, hit down on it!”

GEEEZZZ …. why do women get all this friendly advice? They wouldn’t dare give all that advice to a man!

Instructing women also involves helping them know how and what to say to “friendly advice” so that they don’t offend anyone yet get the point across that they want to stay with what they are learning in lessons. What if they just said, “Who asked YOU?!”


Comments:

Comment from: Ron Mon [Member] Email · http://www.buffalogolfer.com
"GEEEZZZ .... why do women get all this friendly advice? They wouldn't dare give all that advice to a man!"

MY question is, why do they listen? They can fake listening, like faking other things, and continue to do what they do successfully. I was with you until you cried the "poor me" cry of women. However, since I coach a local girls high school golf team, I shall follow your blogs with great interest.
Permalink 2007-02-26 @ 20:29
Comment from: patricia.hannigan [Visitor] Email · http://www.thegolfgirl.blogspot.com
I have to agree with Mr.Mon. Why would a woman listen to advice if she felt she was on the right track? However the point could be that it's distracting and annoying. Unless the guy's really hot, in which case it's still distracting but not annoying).
Permalink 2007-03-04 @ 11:49
Comment from: Fleming [Visitor] Email · http://flightsofpegasus.blogspot.com/
Beverly, it's great to see your blog, and your "herding cats" post is very entertaining. Being a man, I could never get get away with writing something like that, could I?

You're a great teacher. I know. I'll be visiting your blog. I have two: FLIGHTS OF PEGASUS http://flightsofpegasus.blogspot.com/ and VIEW FROM THE MOON
http://viewfrommoon.blogspot.com/
I hope you'll have a look.
Permalink 2007-03-05 @ 06:31

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